With Lots Of Love Part 2 Mainland

Sermon Note

How to Love a Guy

• Help him; support his dreams. Gen 2v18. Ecclesiastes 4 v 9 AMP

It is the man’s responsibility to communicate the way he wants to be helped; it is the woman’s responsibility to figure out the wisdom that can help her man.

• Be his guy.

Pay attention to the things that matter most to him. Don’t overlook or downplay his interests (even if it’s as trivial as the outcome of a football match).

• Show him affection and admiration.

Be his support system; feed his ego but don’t over-inflate it. Let him feel loved.

• Take care of yourself.

Nurture your spirit, soul and body. Pay attention to your hygiene, dress sense, grooming, develop your mind, stay attractive.

How to Love a Lady

• Support her dreams.

Men should also support their women’s dreams but do so with discretion; remember that you’re not her father.

• Listen to her. Eph 5v25

Hear what she is saying and what she’s not saying. Pay attention to both the spoken and unspoken things.

• Protect and provide for her.

Protect her emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially. They love and crave security. Even when she is wrong, defend her outside, correct her inside.

• Stay Romantic.

Be gentle, and consistently thoughtful. Buy gifts, be nice, practice little kind gestures.

Punchlines

• Women should have what they are chasing even as helpers.
• Do not help a man into a state of helplessness
• Ladies, your love can stop a man from being foolish.
• Guys, have game!
• You can’t have a godly relationship without God.
• Marry your spec, and be a spec.
• Pray for your relationship.

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