With Lots of Love 2.0 (Mainland)
Min: PMark
How to Love a Guy
- Help him; support his dreams. Gen 2v18. Eccl. 4v9 AMP
It is the man’s responsibility to communicate the way he wants to be helped; it is the woman’s responsibility to figure out the wisdom that can help her man.
- Be his guy.
Pay attention to the things that matter most to him. Don’t overlook or downplay his interests (even if it’s as trivial as the outcome of a football match).
- Show him affection and admiration.
Be his support system; feed his ego but don’t over-inflate it. Let him feel loved.
- Take care of yourself.
Nurture your spirit, soul and body. Pay attention to your hygiene, dress sense, grooming, develop your mind, stay attractive.
How to Love a Lady
- Support her dreams.
Men should also support their women’s dreams but do so with discretion; remember that you’re not her father.
- Listen to her. Eph 5v25
Hear what she is saying and what she’s not saying. Pay attention to both the spoken and unspoken things.
- Protect and provide for her.
Protect her emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially. They love and crave security. Even when she is wrong, defend her outside, correct her inside.
- Stay Romantic.
Be gentle, and consistently thoughtful. Buy gifts, be nice, practice little kind gestures.
Punchlines
- Women should have what they are chasing even as helpers.
- Do not help a man into a state of helplessness
- Ladies, your love can stop a man from being foolish.
- Guys, have game!
- You can’t have a godly relationship without God.
- Marry your spec, and be a spec.
- Pray for your relationship.
With Lots of Love 2.0 (Island)
Min: CA
How to Love a Guy
- Help him.
Know his dreams and support him.
- Be his guy
Create a comfortable atmosphere for him to gist with you. Develop your mind. Proverbs 18:24
- Admire him
Verbalize your admiration for him. Compliment him and let him feel loved and seen. Psalms 45:2
- Take care of yourself.
Take care of your spirit, soul and body. Look good for him; smell nice, eat healthy, and stay attractive.
How to Love a Lady
- Support her dreams. Be there for her. 1 Peter 3:11 Easy
- Listen to her.
Women love to talk; listen to understand them, not to solve the problem. Sometimes, all she wants are words of reassurance.
- Stay romantic.
Let her know that you love her – get her gifts, go on dates, write her letters, etc. SoS 2:4
- Provide for her and protect her.
Women love to be protected and provided for financially, emotionally, spiritually and physically.
Punchlines
- Your worth is not measured by chocolate, flowers and romance.
- If you’re born again, you have the capacity to love.
- All the love you need is found in God. Focus on loving Him and yourself.
- Giving is the template for love.
- Marriage is beautiful; don’t give up on love.
