Please I need advice. I love my boyfriend and he says he loves me too. We have been dating for 6 months now but for some reason we only meet at my place or at restaurants. He keeps telling me different things when I suggest that we meet at his place. He either says that the road to his place is bad, is waterlogged, or his house is filled with visitors. The worse excuse is that there is no light. All these silly excuses always lead to an argument. In order to keep the peace, I usually let it slide and just go along with it, because he
complains that I am nagging and being difficult, he even said that I am doubting his love for me.
I have seen his friends a couple of times, when we go out to eat at a restaurant, they are friendly and warm towards me. I tried getting close so I can find out where he lives and pay him a surprise visit, but they intentionally avoid having serious conversations with me. I am really worried, I want to know if I am dating a ghost or a homeless person but I don’t know how to go about it. Should I follow him to his house without him knowing or should I just go with all the excuses he has been giving?
what should I do?
